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You want me to be soft...

You want me to be soft.  You associate softness with femininity.  But it isn't safe to be soft.   I was soft once.. Do men not see? I used to make coffee after serving you lunch.  Then make copies and take notes.  So, I would work late and do my actual job while you went home to your families.  Because we're both engineers, but I had to be after hours.  Now I'm too tired to be soft.   You requested for my help specifically on a proposal.  But I found an error in the calculations.  There was no ROI.  Your ego was hurt, and I was kicked off the project.  A week later another man was getting accolades for finding the error and saving the company from moving forward on the project.  I watched and cheered him on for his 'find'.  Then I had to scramble to find another job since his ego was too hurt.   New company.  We disagreed, so you started a smear campaign of me at work.  You convinced peop...